Help me please!!! 10 pts?

guys why would you break up with your gf and say just be friends right now til your life gets sorted out. but you can't stand the thought of her with other and make her swear not to tell you about her dates. also keep telling her she is one of the most bueatiful women in the world and you care for her deeply and miss her. we live 4 hrs. apart. and when you see the future and who you want its her. and deep down you want her to wait for you but you know its wrong to ask or make her. i am visiting him for a week on mon. he is acting funny. he gets upset and says that he still sleep next to the toy i gave him and my love letter in his drawer but that there are no guarentees that we will get back together. and that he wants to keep it platonic when we meet. but now he flirts constantly like calling me bad girl and hun. and says he doesn't know if he can stop himself from touching me if i wear a skirt or go to a movie with him. and he wants to do whatever i want! also